In the money-oriented society, some people are becoming more and more impersonal. They are reluctant to give a helping hand to those in need. From my perspective, helping others means helping yourself. My story can well illustrate my point. Many a time have I turned to my desk-mate for help when I face problems in my study. She was always very patient with me and never made any complaint, although they were very time-consuming. She said it was not a waste of time helping others, and instead, she could have deeper comprehension of the related knowledge. So helping others will benefit you yourself as well. Be ready to provide assistance to others, and then others will come to your aid when you are in trouble. What is more important is that doing others a favor leaves considerable satisfaction and happiness with us. We feel we are needed and respected. As the saying goes, ‘Roses given, fragrance in hand.’ 本文来源：https://www.wddqw.com/doc/16dca8f8700abb68a982fbe6.html