刮目相看的近义词 刮目相看 ThisidiomcomesfromRecordsofThreeKingdoms・KingdomofWu・BiographyofLuMeng.DuringtheThreeKingdomsPeriod,therewasageneralintheStateofWunamedLuMengstyledhimselfZiming.Hewasborninapoorfamilyandstudiedverylittlesincehisyouth.Laterwhenhewasinthemilitarypost,heonlypaidattentiontothemilitarytrainingbutstillreadfewaboutmilitaryandhistoricalbooks.Sohiseducationallevelwasverylow,andsomeofficialsusuallylookeddownuponhim. TheKingoftheStateofWu,SunQuanoftenurgedhimtostudyhard,buthealwaysemphasizedthathehadnotimetolearnbecauseofmilitaryaffairs.LatertheKingtoldhimrepeatedlyhowhewouldbenefitfromlearning,especiallystoryabouttheEmperorGuanwuoftheHanDynastywhowasveryfondofreadingsomeusefulbooksevenwhenoccupiedbymilitarytimes.AllofthemmadeLuMengdeeplymoved.Sincethenhestudiedveryhard.Byandby,whathehadlearnedexceededothers. 第 1 页 共 3页 Oncemilitaryadviser,LuSupassedthroughLuMeng"scamp.AlthoughoriginallyLuSuheldhimincontempt,LuSuhadtovisithimoutofpoliteness.LuMengwarmlywelcomehimandalsotalkedabouthisfivesuggestionsabouthowtoallythemselveswiththegeneralGuanYuoftheStateofShu.HisbestsuggestionsmadeLuSuchangehismannerandsaid."Iusuallyconsiderthatyouaregoodatfightingwithoutmuchlearningability.Nowyouaretotallydifferentfrombefore,youhavenotonlygreatlearningbutalsogoodplans."ThenLuMengsaidwithsmile:"Whenyoumeetamanafterthreedays,youshouldlookathimwithneweyes."Sincethentheybecameintimatefriends.LuSurecommendedLuMengtobethegreatgeneraloftheStateofWu. Nowweuseittodescribethatwhenyoumeetsomeoneafteraseparation,youcan"tjudgehimbyoldstandards. 此语出自《三国志・吴志・吕蒙传》。三国时期,吴国大将吕蒙,字子明,自幼出身贫寒,没有读过多少书。后来,他领兵打仗,只重视军事训练,很少阅读史学和军事书籍,因而文化水平不高,难免受到一些官员的轻视。 吴王孙权经常劝吕蒙要好好读书,可吕蒙总强调军务太多, 第 2 页 共 3页 忙不过来,没有时间读书。后来,孙权一再讲读书的好处,讲了自己读书的收益,也讲了汉光武帝在兵马忙乱之中也坚持学习的故事。吕蒙深受感动,从此认真学习,他读的书也超过了一般人。 一次,吴国军师鲁肃路过吕蒙营寨,鲁肃本来也不太瞧得起吕蒙,但为了礼节,也只得去拜访吕蒙。吕蒙热情地接待了他,并在和鲁肃的交谈中,对如何与蜀将关羽联合的事提出了五条计策。鲁肃听后改变了态度,对吕蒙亲切地说:“我一直认为你能武不能文,现在看来,你学识渊博,已不是以前的粗人了。”吕蒙笑着说:“士别三日,即更刮目相待。”从此,两人成了好友,后来鲁肃还推荐吕蒙继任大都督。 后用此典比喻在与人重逢时,不能用老眼光看人,应该用新的眼光另眼相待。 第 3 页 共 3页 本文来源：https://www.wddqw.com/doc/8f0335166094dd88d0d233d4b14e852459fb399f.html