朋友关系的存续是以相互尊重为前提的，容不得半点强求、干涉和控制。朋友之间，情趣相投、脾气对味则合、则交；反之，则离、则绝。朋友之间再熟悉，再亲密，也不能随便过头，不恭不敬。不然，默契和平衡将被打破，友好关系将不复存在。每个人都希望拥有自己的私密空间，朋友之间过于随便，就容易侵入这片禁区，从而引起冲突，造成隔阂。待友不敬，或许只是一件小事，却可能已埋下了破坏的种子。维持朋友亲密关系的最好办法是往来有节，互不干涉。 Friendship is based on the premise of mutual respect, not allow a bit enforcement, interference nor controlment. Friends who are tempera mentally compatible or have similar disposition on things, naturally, get closed and associate much. Conversely, they get separated and break off. No matter how well they know each other or how intimate they are, the behaviors can not over free nor the basic respect can be lost neither. Otherwise, that tacit agreement they have reached and subtle balance they have kept before will all be broken down. Friendship will also vanish into void. Every one of us hopes to own a private space, but when friends get too closed and even become over free, this private space may easily get intruded into, then conflicts raised and barriers formed. It might be a minor matter, that you treat your friend with rudeness, probably carry within the seeds of evil. Thus, the best way to maintain intimate friendship is to contact with courtesy and interfere nothing in each other’s personal life. 本文来源：https://www.wddqw.com/doc/90e9d66a5acfa1c7aa00ccb8.html