【#英语资源# 导语】卡耐基在《人性的弱点》中告诉了人们这样几条处世规则:一、对别人表现出诚挚的关切;二、微笑;三、记住他人的名字,一个人的名字对他本人来说,是任何语言中最甜蜜、最重要的声音;四、做一个好的倾听者,鼓励他人谈论他们自己;五、谈论别人感兴趣的事物,使对方觉得重要——以一种诚恳的方式进行。卡耐基作为人类的心灵导师,他深刻地洞察到,世上之所以有那么多的人不成功,是因为他们内心的忧虑、自卑和人际沟通障碍所致。他提出了“相信你能成功,你就能成功”的论断。以下是®文档大全网为大家整理的内容,欢迎阅读参考。
This book includes three skills of interpersonal relationship, 6 popular methods, 12 rules for getting approval, 9 Tips for better persuasion, a miracle letter (such as the lover's help, the other party will not conflict), 7 Rules for your family happiness, and how to get along with your wife. The author tells these skills, methods, tricks and rules, and tells them through real cases, and summarizes the experience. It feels like listening to the story, not so boring. I like this way very much, and I feel very real. It is easier to understand the stories of others and accept the truth contained in them. This is the charm of the book, feel that the book is not tired of reading.
The book mentions an American masterpiece "father's mistake". The father only criticizes the species and expressions of his son's life, and does not encourage it. When my son left soon, the newspaper slipped from my hand. A kind of indescribable, strong sense of guilt poured into my heart. I hate those bad habits! He who is picky and immovable teaches. I can't imagine that I used these evils on you, a child. It's not my performance of loving you. This is the standard for me to use the wrong people of my age, ask you. The father regretted his bad criticism and scolding his children. He began to review, he found that he had done wrong, and his son was still a child, and he didn't understand at all. From this case, summarize the experience. Don't blame others, try to think, why do others do that? What is the meaning of doing that? Understanding is more beneficial and meaningful than accusation. Understanding can lead to compassion, tolerance and goodwill“ Tolerance is understanding everything. " As Dr Johnson said, "God, even if God, not the end, will not judge the world easily." Why can't we do it? So remember - avoid criticism, blame, or complaining.
My favorite part of the book is about seven rules for your family to be happy. Many people don't know how to run their own family well, so that their lovers and their own happiness. Chattering is digging the grave of marriage: the chatter of Mrs. Lincoln, Queen orenne and Mrs Tolstoy brought disaster to their most cherished marriage. What else does it bring? What else is there after a tragedy? Bessie hampberg of the New York City Family Relations Court has 11 years of experience in the trial of thousands of family marriage disputes. She said the constant nagging of women is an important reason for men leaving home. As the Boston Post says, "many wives are actually slowly becoming the gravediggers of marriage." So, if you want to be happy and happy, remember: never nag!
Life can't be perfect, and life can't be smooth all its life. In the face of setbacks, some people are depressed, mediocre and regret for life; Some people go up against difficulties and make a brilliant contribution to their life. Why is life different? I think the most important thing is that in the face of setbacks, people's will, fighting spirit and perseverance are different!
Everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages. How can we give full play to his advantages, weaken his disadvantages, or turn his disadvantages into advantages, so that he can become a shining gold? Perhaps, Carnegie's "human weakness" can help us overcome our human weakness!
As early as I was in college, a friend introduced me to read the book "the weakness of human nature", but I never had the chance. This winter vacation, I finally read Carnegie's work. In the process of reading this book, I feel that every chapter I read has a new feeling. At the beginning, I didn't know much about many things. Only by repeatedly reading and thinking, and combining with my own experience, can I have a good understanding of the truth in the book.
The weakness of human nature is written by Dale, an American writer. Carnegie's works, it is the world's second best seller after the Bible, Carnegie's most important life, the most abundant experience gathered in this book. This is a book full of humor and wisdom. It enlightens me in my life, and let me know how to overcome my weaknesses, give full play to my strengths, and face some setbacks bravely.
The weakness of human nature consists of ten chapters, each of which is rich and colorful. The author uses vivid examples to make the principles of life easy to understand and refreshing. Every chapter, every section, even every paragraph and every sentence in the book makes people feel deeply and benefit a lot. Now, I'd like to talk about some experiences of some chapters in the book.
Carnegie said: it is the responsibility of teachers to conquer fear and cultivate manners, courage and self-confidence. The surest and fastest way to help a person gain courage and self-confidence in daily life is to let him speak boldly in front of a group of people. I finally understand why the teacher exercises our ability to speak in front of the students.
To overcome self and build self-confidence, we must first transcend inferiority complex. Inferiority as a negative psychological state, everyone will have some more or less. It is close to self-confidence. If we surpass it and turn it into a driving force, we can move towards success and excellence. In life, we often encounter the situation of inferiority. Inferiority is obviously harmful to our own growth and development, and also hinders our normal communication with others. The reason why we are afraid to speak in front of the crowd is that we are afraid of making mistakes and that our pronunciation, tone or posture will be ridiculed by others. This is the expression of inferiority. One way to overcome this inferiority complex is to tell ourselves that we will only make money but not lose money because we are likely to succeed. Even if we fail, we have gained valuable experience. We can promise ourselves that we will continue to do better next time until we succeed. Fear and worry is a kind of negative, failure mentality, is the performance of inferiority complex, it makes people worry blindly, fear, and finally in fear of escape mediocre. Therefore, we must overcome the negative mentality, use the positive and successful mentality as a useful weapon, and believe in ourselves: you can overcome it without any difficulty. A person's inner thoughts are very important. Good thoughts can produce very logical and constructive plans considering the causes and results, while bad thoughts usually lead to a person's tension and mental breakdown.
Secondly, positive self suggestion, enhance their desire.
Mentality determines fate, and thought is extremely important. As long as you know what you are thinking, you can know who you are. If in a day, our mind is happy thoughts, we can be happy; If we think about sad things, we will feel sad; If we think of some terrible situation, we will be afraid
Life is not simple. We should choose a positive attitude rather than a negative one. In other words, we must care about our problems, but not worry about them. When we are troubled by all kinds of troubles and the whole person is nervous, we can change our state of mind with our own willpower. We should remember that the use of thought and thought itself can make hell heaven and heaven hell.
To improve their desire, list their wishes and dreams one by one, and then mark the intensity of each desire, mark what they are most eager to get, and strengthen the motivation, tell themselves that they must achieve a certain goal, so that this idea can go deep into the subconscious, and continue to strengthen, and become a part of their thoughts, so that the goal is actually very close.
Finally, we must dare to express our true self and show our achievements beyond ourselves.
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