父母的行为对孩子成长起着非常重要的作用。 父母常常是孩子行为和性格特质的榜样。进取型父母总是培养出进取心强的孩子，性格温和的父母则培养出性格温和的孩子。如果父母口是心非，言行不一，孩子就会模仿他们的行为，对他们的教导也置之不理。孩子们尤其喜欢模仿善于教育且性格坚强的父母，不爱模仿冷漠且软弱的父母。父母如果经常与孩子谈话，孩子会养成更好的口头表达及社交能力，如果不经常谈话，孩子则反之。如果父母常跟孩子一道玩，孩子则往往得到其他孩子的认同，也善于识别并诠释其他孩子的情绪和情感。 事实上，如果一个孩子生活在一个充满仁慈、爱心和责任感的家庭，他日后会成为健康、正直、乐观向上、有所作为的人。如果一个孩子生活在一个充满愚昧、野蛮、堕落和自私自利的家庭，日后他可能成为一个粗鲁的毫无教养的甚至危害社会的人。 家长是孩子的第一任教师甚至是孩子的终身教师。所以父母在对孩子进行教育时，要不断提高自身素质和道德修养，民主的家庭关系，努力与孩子一起成长。 Parental behaviors growth of children plays a very important role. Parents often are children's behavior and personality traits of example. Aggressive parents always motivated to cultivate strong kids, gentle foster parents are mild-mannered child. If the parents duplicity, words and deeds, the child will imitate their behavior, their teachings are ignored. Kids especially like to imitate good education and a strong personality parents do not love mimic cold and weak parents. Parents often talk with the child, the child will develop better verbal and social skills, if you do not often talk to children and vice versa. If the parents often tell children a play, children often get the recognition of other children, but also good to identify and interpret the emotions and feelings of other children. In fact, if a child lives in a world of kindness, love and responsibility of the family, he would become a healthy, honest, optimistic, people who make a difference. If a child lives in a world of ignorance, barbarism, depravity and selfishness of the family, in the future he may be a danger to society even rude no upbringing. Parents are their children's first teachers, and even a child's lifelong teacher. So when parents educate their children, to constantly improve their own quality and morality, democratic family relations, strive to grow with your child. 本文来源：https://www.wddqw.com/doc/4b309a8f6edb6f1aff001f9a.html