How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent As is seen by us all ,more and more Chinese children’s independence reduced . Most Chinese parents dote on their children , which makes children depend on their parents too much . They can’t do something easy by themselves , such as washing clothes , shopping…If parents keep doing like this , their children won’t be independent and can’t succeed in doing something by themselves . How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent? In my opinion , the most important thing is that parents must change their thoughts . Only by letting children try to everything by themselves can they help their children form a good habit . Second , I want to introduce a good way of education . That is making the children know that no pains , no gains .It is obvious that all of parents love their children , but they can give love in another way . Children will not get benefit if they don’t show their love to parents . This way , I think , is good for children’s growth . All in all , the way of most parents’ education should change . As a saying goes : the flowers in greenhouse will never be bright . Just open your hand , let children fly in the sky ! 本文来源：https://www.wddqw.com/doc/53638ff6492fb4daa58da0116c175f0e7dd1195f.html